You wake up to a dream about an old relationship — again. All the old feelings, that you thought you were already over, are showing up as fresh and intense as if the relationship ended yesterday instead of 5, 10, or even 20 years ago.

Why do our dreams do this to us? How can we get them to stop? And, agonizingly, what does it all mean about us?

These are burning dream questions that are the drive between thousands of google searches everyday, and have been burning at the center of my Natural Dreamwork practice for many years. The role that love plays in our dreams, in both overt and subtle ways, can be one of the most powerful ways to connect and transform through a dream practice.

But in order to crack these codes, confront our hang-ups, and walk towards the relationships and intimacies we crave in our lives with courage, we have to get some basic misconceptions out of the way first. My YouTube video below is all about this, which you can check out below. In the video, I’ll explain why you may be dreaming about your ex and what you can do about it when it happens.

And if you are ready to go deeper, I’m so excited to be offering a webinar, The Dream of Love, on Tuesday June 7th. This 1.5 hr webinar will dive deep into the juicy subject of love and dreams.

In the 1.5 hr webinar I will go in-depth into: 

>>How we can recognize and work with subtle hints at connection and love in our dreams

>>How to work with past lovers / crushes / unrequited love in dreams

>>What dreams about sex, intimacy, and passion can teach us about our desires

>>What it means to have a fulfilling relationship with ourselves in or out of partnership, and how dreams can guide us

The workshop will include a shamanic dream journey into our hearts and have time to answer any questions you may have about ways love, relationships, and intimacy has shown up in your dreams.

The class is just $22. I would love to see you there!! Click here to sign up, and don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any questions. If you can’t make it live, when you sign up you’ll receive a recording, and I’ll be happy to answer any questions you have whether or not you make it.



Kezia Vida received a BA in philosophy from Yale University, and has been working with and studying dreams under the Natural Dreamwork tradition for 11 years. She is the author of The Dreaming I, a unique interactive dream journal designed to jump start your dream practice and was the co-host of the 2019 Shift Network Dream Summit. She is also the co-director of All You Need Institute, a center for the exploration and practice of dreams for the New Earth. Read more about her work on the About Us page.